There are many ways for the team to let us know that the deal fell threw. Without directly telling us as I think Ohioknight put it. Nate could simply say "I'm focusing all my energy in City of Titans". If he was to say something like that. Then I'd assume it'd mean, that the energy he was focusing in making the deal happen. Was no longer needed because the deal isn't going to happen, ect..
I wasn't saying that being a realist meant you was being negative. What I was trying to say is. If you claim to be a realist yet read negatively into the silence. Then are you truly a realist? What is there to decern from silence after good news, with no negative news to follow?
I don't know maybe there's something I'm missing?
If I'm not mistaken, it was Surelle (not Ohioknight - although I've agreed with many of the things he's said as well) who originally suggested that should Nate make the ultimate decision to find some discrete/diplomatic way to inform the rest of the community that he would be moving on from the negotiations, he would do so in such a manner - and I was the first to re-quote and agree with her. But what I'm saying is that there is no way to know where the deal currently stands right NOW in our 'no news/updates' stage (i.e. they may be under a lockup period and there is a definite yes/no, but no one can say anything YET - as Arcana suggested). Ergo, to state that 'no news is good news' might actually be quite false, or be quite true - we don't know, unless Nate were to come forward and specifically say "Hey guys - if you don't hear any updates from me, that's a good thing/bad thing" (which he has not done). So, to air on the side of caution, that is why I prefer the term 'no news is no news'.
I think where you might be confused is in your assumption that people who are of this 'no news is no news' mindset are choosing to automatically have a
negative opinion of where the deal currently stands - and while I can't speak for everyone else, I can certainly state that this notion does not accurately reflect my personal views at all. If I were thinking negatively of the situation, I would be in the 'no news is BAD news' camp
I'm not being an optimist, and I'm not being a pessimist. I'm just taking the 'no news' for what it is, with no spin this way or that way. I want to see the deal go through just as badly as everyone else does - I was a 7 year veteran of the game, and I think about it all the time.
I'm just opting not to get my hopes up, nor lose hope all together. Does that make more sense?