That, in turn, has shaped public perception of reality to be a far darker, abysmal place then it actually is. It still is dark, but the kindness of strangers is not a dying art. Just a quiet one.
Damn right
One of the biggest offenders in skewing public opinion like that is the emergence of 24hr rolling news stations. They have time to fill, and while nature may abhor a vacuum, it's got nothing on a news channel! If there's a hole in their programming they fill it immediately with wild speculation, repetition, and hyperbole.
What a lot of people tend to forget (or perhaps never considered in the first place) is that almost by definition, stories appearing on tv news are 'aberrant'. News media isn't in the business of giving column inches or airtime to the mudane and everyday, they want sensationalism, they want it NOW, and if there isn't any around they'll just make some up.
You don't see news articles saying "A lady dropped her credit card today while shopping. Fortunately a helpful person found the card and handed it in to the store staff who were able to contact the lady and she was reunited with her card within minutes." - because small acts of kindness like that happen
all the time, so they're not newsworthy. In fact I
was the 'helpful person' in that exact scenario just a couple of days ago in my local supermarket. Such acts of kindness are the very glue that keeps society together.
How do I know? Because people continue to live in cities and towns and to go about their business every day. And every day is much like the day before, and the day after will be much the same as today.
And it's perhaps because of this that no one would want to read a book that
started with the phrase "And they all lived happily ever after". People prefer to watch news stories about crime, car chases, war, health scares...basically the same kind of exciting stuff they'd find in a novel or action film.
Because they're not watching the news for information, they're watching for
entertainment.
The trouble comes when people allow the media to fill their desire for such entertainment at the expense of their objectivity. When too many people subjectively believe that what they see on tv news is actually representative of reality, then the aberrant becomes the norm - it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
However - never forget that if the world was
really as dark as the media try to paint it, there'd be no civilisation, no communities, just anarchy.
So here's the most ironic part - in a way I'm actually happy for the media to keep vomiting out their black bile.
Why?
Because as long as their dark stories draw viewers, it means they
still are aberrant. If the dark really was the norm, no one would watch the dark news stories because they'd be boring and mundane.
So the mere fact the news is dark reassures me that
humanity itself is not.