I never really had a problem with the game changing. Things always change. I got into the game because some friends of mine who had played for years wanted me to. Later they told me that the ITF was nearly impossible. Well, it probably was for a while until people figured it out. Things Change.
One of them, who played for like 8 years asked me how my blaster could wade into mobs. I explained that I had slotted sets that increased his positional defense and popped a small purple to softcap. He had no idea what I was talking about. He still just slotted SO's and had no idea of the benefits of set bonuses. Things change and he just missed it.
It took me about six months before I knew more about the game then they ever did. I explained the lore to them, how sets worked, took them on badge tours, how to use knockback as soft control, and also showed them how to beat the ITF
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I tried to explain marketing and how to be filthy rich.But they just couldn't get it. It was easier just to give them money when they needed it.
Not because I'm wicked smart like Arcana, but because I loved the game so much that I read everything that I could find. I read the paperbacks, all the comics, most of the wikipedia (except for missions I hadn't done yet because of spoilers), I bought every version of the game I cold find, both of the Prima guides, whatever hero clicks I could find.
I only got to play for five years, but in that five years so much happened. I was bummed when Galaxy City got the Axe, I even missed doing the old Posi. (i would sometimes solo it in Ouroboros). But the point is things always changed.
But it didn't matter. It was still fun and the spirit was there. The players where some of the best people I have ever met online. Most were so helpful and fun to team with. One time I was playing Captain Mar-vell homage on a double XP weekend and got the entire team wiped. I was expecting a flame (and I would have deserved it) and all that was said was "yeah, maybe next time wait for the tank to grab the aggro."
Someone once saw a Frankenstein toon that I was running and sent me 5 million inf. Why? He was looking for a team and the "The Doctor's Monster" came up in the search and he really liked the concept. Where else does that kind of thing happen?
What never changed, what no Dev could nerf, what no troll could destroy was simply the camaraderie of the players and the genuine affection we all shared for the game, warts and all.
I know in my heart that I would still be playing and would probably play until something killed me. I could always count on City of Heroes to make my day better. That's why I want to play again before I die.