I'm not having anything close to an enormous tantrum ragefit over all this as you so delicately put it.
In which case, you have no excuse whatsoever for the line "I call bullshit". That might be excusable as harsh words in anger, but since you instead seem to suffer an inherent lack of tact, manners, or even the ability to see why calling other's efforts bullshit is both offensive and unwarranted, then it is probably best that
you don't write to Disney.
"Buy CoH or I'll call bullshit" might not be the kind of heartfelt persuasive message we're after. Someone who can't understand a polite but firm "No" or understand that there are two sides to things, not just their own demands, should never be a negotiator. And as a messenger, they'd only be fit for sending to Sparta.
So there, Riff, noone at all is now asking
you to write to Disney. You don't seem to be equipped with the necessaries. If the cost of you maybe, possibly, kind-of, sending any kind of letter to Disney is that we breach confidences made with people who've actually put themselves on the line and gone out of their way, asking NOTHING but confidence in return, then that price is so ridiculous as to be like NCsoft asking more than anyone would bid.
We've heard your hard-bargaining counter-offer to a generous gift given for free of a chance to support reaching out to Disney. No thanks. We happen to think that "We've written to Disney, putting in our own time, words, effort, thought, and resources. Why don't you do the same?" is a perfectly reasonable and very generous deal.