Just like we miss the thousands of switchboard operators, the tens of thousands of people in the calculating pool, the hundreds of thousands of people in the typing pool, the telegraph operators, coaling station employees, pony express riders, and manual typesetters. Think of how much more infallible the ice box was than the modern refrigerator. As long as the ice delivery guy kept coming, the only thing that could break was the hinge on the door. And if everyone had to post on the internet through stenographers, just imagine the increase in grammatical accuracy and the decrease in impulsive flame wars.
Also, unless your primary vehicle is a 1978 Datsun, people can already hack your car.
Your examples are wonderful, but I'm afraid your point is wrong (I'm not saying your point is wrong, I'm saying I'm AFRAID your point is wrong).
This version of automation is capable of generating judgement-like effects that make it possible to actually remove humans from nearly all definable activities. The driver profession is the most powerful example, but already the massive surge in US manufacturing is generating only a tiny percentage of manufacturing jobs per dollar compared to traditional manufacturing -- the robots are getting good ENOUGH that this time it IS different.
And because we have organized our society around the wonderfully effective (and generally beneficial by any measure) capitalist market system, the massive increase in future wealth from tech is going almost exclusively to investors (and the bulk of that to venture investors) which excludes the vast majority of our society. So how, in this future, is the half of all people with below 100 IQ's supposed to survive?
We have to somehow recognize, legally, that all American citizens are "investors" in the stable social and political system that ALLOWS wealth creation -- America draws investment from all over the world because of our system -- we need our people to receive return for this much as the people of Alaska receive payment for their state's natural resources. (Every Alaskan gets a check from the Government due to oil taxes).
But this has nothing to do with private servers