Dude, I feel ya. I've felt much of the same since CoH died and I really don't like it. I've tried lots of different MMO's since then but, until recently, nothing has sated my "need", as it were.
So what changed? On a friends encouragement, I picked up a game I've tried a couple of times in the last 2 years, previously without really enjoying it, but decided to give it another go. What I found has... well, it's cheered me up no end! Before I was just going through the motions, but this time I actually paid attention to the story and found myself loving it! It's engaging, fantastically written; has dropped my jaw in several places, left me feeling stunned in others, and a couple of times, has kicked me so hard in the feels that it even brought a tear to me eye! I levelled my way up to the cap, I've started working on various jobs, I've even being doing a lot of raiding and PvP (and anyone who knows me, knows I HATE PvP, with a passion!)
And what is this game, you ask? Final Fantasy XIV. Go play it. The trial is now unlimited and you can get to level 35 in all the classes so you can get a good way into the story AND do some raiding too!
I know, replying about 6 days late here but...
It's not really mmorpgs that i'm really into anymore. Guild wars had enough pidgin holing and I'm not an otaku. In other words I'm ultra-tired of things anime in games unless it's something I'd messed with some time ago like say FF7(or maybe an earlier installment I hadn't played). I mean when I play Skyrim and Fallout 4, mods that I see on nexus(90% of which are bad, and number in the hundreds or worst) seriously turn me off from modern games that are anime themed. Plus I didn't entirely like the incarnate trials all that much, it was enough to run them to get some tier 3's/4's, but not enough to run them for the sake of it. Plus DCUO's raid content left me feeling burn out pretty fast and I only ran it's raids a few times.
I really just don't see myself touching another mmorpg. I don't wish a repeat of the same problems I saw in guild wars of waiting 30+ minutes for someone of a specific role with no friends on and having to pick up sub-par henchmen(or have to use a couple of heroes), of not getting any credit if I decide I play a damage dealer or tank(or anything non-healer). I don't have that kind of time every day to wait 30+ minutes doing nothing but preparing to have fun. I admit, I'd pondered looking at GW2 but even then I hear similar problems once again cropped up(only reason I look at GW2 is Arena.net is no longer under NCSoft I hear, I'd have to re-check that to see if thats still true).
I dunno, I am starting to think the genre is not a fit, CoH was an exception because of it's depth, tactical nature and how one didn't have to wait around all day for a healer when trying to do earlier content(looking at you luxon side of guild wars factions that I could never, ever, ever progress with henchmen).