*cough* Multi-posting because I got too long-winded. Sorry.
if anyone is "grossly distorting things" here its you Segev.
I don't see how. I stated what I, as a conservative, believe. I have not stated what you believe. There's no distortion unless you think I'm lying about what I believe.
As much as I admire your efforts with TPP
Thanks. We do all have some areas of common ground, or we wouldn't be having civil discussions on this forum. ^_^
I am sorely disappointed that you support such discrimination against fellow citizens. And yes I know you didn't outright say that but you ARE supporting it whether you admit it or not.
Let's not get personal, here. You accuse me of supporting discrimination, when I say I am standing up for human rights.
"Infanticide" can only occur AFTER a child is born if it happens against the mother's will.
I trust you don't mean that a mother has the right to "abort" a child post-birth. I doubt that you mean this; I hope you don't mean this. That is the denotation of the words you used, here, though, so I suspect you mis-spoke.
And in any case its her body and its her right what to do with it.
It is. She has a legal right to, among other things, not have sex without contraception. (Rape is a horrible, horrible crime I wish on nobody, and while I tend to ask, "Why is it the baby who gets the death penalty?" it is a red herring to bring it up at all, as the debate is not about corner cases. And heavens, I hope rape is a "corner case.")
Men and women both have the right to choose their sexual partners or lack thereof. However, actions have consequences. A father does have the right to drink and then go for a hike on a cliff side. He does not have the right to leave his 1-year-old child unsupervised in a cabin on its own while he does so. Like it or not, a woman
and the man responsible both have obligations to a baby when their actions create him (or her). Laws should be in place to enforce a man's obligations, since natural law makes it a lot harder to do so. In fact, if a woman chooses to have a baby rather than abort it, she can bring those laws to bear against the man who donated the genetic material. This is no different: the baby has a right to live. I'm all for helping support a woman through this hard time and helping her put the child up for adoption if she doesn't want to raise him. But murdering babies because their inconvenient is not a solution.
I support preserving the life of both mother and child, and where that is not possible, leaving the choice to the mother.
It is infanticide to kill a baby. Period. Sometimes, it's a choice of who to save, but even then I view such a choice as tragic (but necessary). It's not about denying women rights any more than child support laws are about denying men rights. Yes, it's intensely more inescapable for those 9 months, but outside of rape, the woman
made a choice that resulted in a baby, as did the man.
Having an abortion is LEGAL and is not something any woman does lightly. It is traumatic and carries a hefty emotional toll on any woman who goes through with it.
I'm disputing neither of these facts. I would like to change the former to be something done only with the same legal gravity that, say, conjoined twins pick one to cut off. Parents can't just say "Cut the left one off and kill it" if he could survive without his connection to his twin.
The fact that the party that wants to strip the rights of a woman to determine her own medical choices in regards to abortion
This is a disingenuous debate technique, designed to villify your opponent rather than engage his points. We don't want to "strip a woman of her rights." We want to protect women from murder. (Or do you think that all aborted babies are male?)
If it is a woman's right to decide what she does with her body when it comes to killing the baby that is dependent upon her support, why is it not the man's right to decide what he does with his livelihood if she chooses to have the baby and raise it? Why is he forced to pay child support if he can be proven to be the father? Easy and legal abortion means that there is hefty incentive for a man who wants not to be committed to the relationship for the next 19 years (until the child turns 18) to pressure the woman to make this "traumatic" choice which "carries a hefty emotional" (and, I will add, physical) "toll on [the] woman [if she] goes through with it."
I find such pressure, which is legal to put, to be a fairly anti-woman thing to do, myself.
But again: if a woman has a right to choose what to do "with her body" at the expense of the child, why does the man lack the right to choose what to do "with his livelihood" at the expense of the woman and child? (I'm not saying he should; quite the contrary. But are you? If not, then how do you jive the unequal treatment under the law?)
are the same party that is also against sex education and contraception which would PREVENT abortions from occurring in the first place is BAFFLING.
Actually, it's not sex education we oppose. It's mandatory sex education, against the will of parents, or behind the parents' backs, which we oppose. And we tend to promote teaching abstinence because, of all the "birth control" methods, it is the only one guaranteed to work 100% of the time. ...okay, technically, it failed all of once, but Divine Intervention is a bit outside the scope of this debate. ^^;
The destruction of the family and moral teaching has done far more to promote irresponsible sex than any supposed "lack" of sex ed.
Gay people cannot marry the person they love in most states but that's changing.
Nor can polygamists, and that's not changing. Your point?
It WILL come to every state eventually.
Perhaps, but forcing it through the courts is the wrong way to do it. If it's so inevitable, it should be debated and passed through legislative processes, not imposed through court mandates.
Your argument is a BS pure and simple. They don't have the same right you do.
Yes, they do. There is nothing in the law about "the person you love." While marriage should BE about love, the law isn't about that; it's about promoting the institution that has evolved over millenia of human history.
The only actual restrictions we place on who can marry who in the United States are: they cannot be an immediate blood relative, they must be of the legal age of consent, and you can only be married to one person at a time.
Er, that's patently false by your own admission. Right now, in most states, we also state that you can only marry people of the opposite gender. We also have a fair number of very close scrutiny laws applied to marrying foreign nationals, because it's abused as a quick end-run around immigration law.
You may
want those to be the only "restrictions we place on who can marry who," and it's a valid debate to have. (I happen to think it's as valid as the debate over whether the dead should be allowed to vote, with mediums appointed by their descendents telling us how they want their votes cast, but if people honestly thought that was good policy, it would be a valid debate to have. Marriage has a definition, for crying out loud, that has been recognized across every culture in human history. But hey. Valid debate.) But those are
not the only restrictions, as evidenced by the fact that we have to CHANGE the laws to allow men to marry other men and women to marry other women.