There was a lot of tl;dr for my tastes but I managed to discover Evil1 = Evil_Legacy from the forums. That's all I really needed to know. There's no reasoning with said individual ... they have a very ... unique view on emotions as a whole...
A pretty constant source of trouble from what I recall. Had some flame wars going with quite a few ppl, over a variety of topics. *shrugs*
Oh right. That explains it. Not sure why I didn't put two and two together. But yeah I know her very well. I'm the one that got her into COX. Seems like I created a monster though.
. Well without going into too much detail, I been telling her about this game for a year before she finally played it. I thought maybe it would help get over her general disdain for the human species (as she call it).
Remember all this comes from years of knowing her so I kind of know the workings. People online dont know here from the next person or by now think she is merely a standard troll. I dont think that assessment is too far off and looking at her posts, "Well no pancake, Sherlock, why people think that is a troll."
How I deal? I have a lot of patience and even more so in real life with all sort of people. There is wheel chair bound lady that seems to always be stranded but each time no thinking any less of her, I stop what I doing, car still parked at the gas pump and push her two blocks down to the bus station that she wanted to go to. There is this guy I give substantial amount of money to each time I pass him but it seems like for the past three years his situation haven't change, but I dont know the root so I do the kind thing. A felon I knew, I gave him a place to stay, food to eat, and treated him as my equal, a person that never even been arrested before. When most people didnt want anything to do with him. Unfortunately the streets were calling his name too loud and he couldn't resist now he's facing 10 years. But still he still say I was the only true friend he ever had and that even his own family never gave a pancake about him. That is what feeds me hope in this world, giving other people hope.
I dont think E. ever had that before she met me. Everything in her life was about reality, you live you die that's it, business mindset. Everything from school where only thing that mattered to her parents was grades. That was success. College, the type of school, and how many degrees, that is success. How much money you make, that is success. Actions that produces Results=Success. Everything else is merely entertainment and way to kill time nothing to get emotionally attached, including most people outside her friends but I dont think she will attend a funeral or cry over it. Her view of death is that "everyone knows it coming so why get upset when something you knew was coming actually arrives?" I used the word disdain earlier. That may be an overstatement. It might be that she just dont understand other humans and or society. I think I failed to realize that introducing her to a world where you have all types from all over the world in a large social setting, was a bit too much too fast. It seemed that she enjoyed the game but I'm not sure about the social aspect.