Meh, editing this post. The intended humor of the arrogance probably wouldn't come off right.
My condolences to those who have had that sort of thing happen. I empathize, though mercifully, I don't think I can sympathize. (And if I can, I'd rather not be aware of it, because there's no good dwelling on my own past miseries if I can no longer recall them. So nyah.) As always, if you ever need a friendly word of support, I think my email's in the forum system. I know PMs work.
I have, frankly, been amazed by how hard everyone is working, here, and how cohesive we've been. Even when we disagree. Despite what some have claimed, I know when I wandered onto the board with ideas that didn't mesh with those of the community, I wasn't torn to ribbons. And so we've gotten along. Sometimes, I just wish I could get inside others' heads to know what they're thinking, because they just...don't make sense. And those who're accusing the boards of being insular here are in that category right now.
'night, all.