"Gay people should be put to death" is an atrocious, horrible thing to say; there are very few things worthy of death, and if you pay attention in the Bible, the connection of death sentences to homosexuality is very tightly focused - in context - around groups of sodomites who are actively raping and abusing people. (Yes, the Leviticus laws are less contextual, but since the Law of Moses was fulfilled and replaced with "love thy neighbor as thyself" as a central tennent, and "I the Lord will judge whom I will judge, but of you it is required that you forgive all men," I think it safe to say that any judgmental pronouncements of earthly punishment for choices - sinful or not - that do not harm others are non-Christian.)
MOST of the organizations that are attacked these days for being "Anti-gay" are actually being attacked for daring to think that homosexual sex is a sin. I don't know about you, but I don't think believing that lying is a sin makes me against freedom of speech, as an example. It is not my place, either, to judge liars (other than as needed to, you know, determine if I can trust what they tell me or not). Therefore, I get really tired of it being claimed that not condoning homosexuality is somehow oppressing those who suffer or enjoy and/or practice it. It's their business.
I refuse to get into "gay marriage" as a debate topic in the Save CoH forum and certainly not in the hopefully a-political relief effort thread for Hurricane Sandy. Can we please stop bad-mouthing charitable organizations for daring to have religious beliefs? I know my own Church, though decidedly in the "homosexual sex is a sin" camp, would never turn away gay people in need. So let's focus on actually loving our neighbors and not on fomenting division, please.