There's good gay and bad gay?
I wonder if there are good heteros and bad heteros. And which one am I? *sigh* I'm probably a horrible hetero since I can cook, clean, and operating a sewing machine quite competently.
Please don't make light of this. I really don't appreciate the use of stereotypes. No matter what ideological high ground you're coming from, being homo- or bisexual is different than being hetero. I'm a boy who likes boys, you're a boy who likes girls. It's just not the same... When you're in a minority, becoming a community is a necessity. Hence there is no "heterosexual community". Communities have good and bad elements, and I've experienced some serious negatives. I say I'm a bad gay because I have never been particularly well-received by anyone in the community except my boyfriend, and we started off long-distance (we've been dating for almost three years now). I actually don't have any gay friends, save for him. Poor me, right? I don't mind it so much, but I've never fit in with a mostly gay community.
To answer other questions... I started on Virtue, played on Infinity, then moved to Freedom. I've experienced a degree of negativity on each, but you can probably guess that Freedom is the worst.
With all this said, I am proud of who I am. Though I prefer to avoid conflict, I am not afraid to fight for who I am.. I'm truly glad to hear that Cities has helped people, but it's never been that way for me.